“A little over a year ago I made the decision to join Diamonds, a group of inspiring women who I was soon referring to as ‘my tribe.’ From the moment I joined, I realised 3 things – I had found a supportive like minded community, my fitness needed major improvement, and that age is just a number- it is our attitude that really matters.
When the opportunity to go to Japan arose through a cancellation back in June, I read the brief, spoke to Michele and got my hubby’s input. There was plenty of hesitation on my behalf – my fear of flying, aversion to seafood and general fussiness around food, my apprehension towards sharing a room (and a ‘cosy’ one at that, according to the notes) with someone I barely knew. Would my weekly 2 hour trek training plus gym sessions be enough to cut it, plus I thought about how many wet wipes I’d need to pack as there was no way I was planning on following the Japanese tradition of communal showering and bathing. Despite my doubts, and my boss approving my leave (which I kind of secretly hoped she wouldn’t), I took the plunge and booked in for my first multi day hike!
As I write this, I have only been home a few days and it’s difficult to encapsulate in words what the journey was really like. Firstly, what a wonderful group of encouraging women to share the days with. Everyone was on their own path of self discovery, some seeking answers to questions, others looking for inner peace – learning about themselves whilst wanting nothing but the best for each other. My roomie Kath was kind, caring, compassionate and I appreciate every one of the moments we shared from our deep conversations to our belly laughs and all the steps in between.
My dread of having to shower in the same space dissipated by the time we had completed (survived) day 1. I did not have the energy to use an endless number of wipes and was desperate to feel clean. Having sweated buckets throughout the hike and feeling like I’d signed up for a detox program, I succumbed to Japanese tradition fairly quickly.
During our 10 days I learned so much about myself. I went in with the hope of gaining a little more than just a blister and sore legs, and I walked (shuffled) away with so much more. I learned how hard I can be on myself and how awful my self talk is at times. I’d never speak to anyone the way I talk to myself. By challenging my thoughts, not only was I able to think in a more helpful manner particularly when the going got tough, but in turn conserve energy for the hiking. I learned how kind and intuitive the ladies are in this group, through their courageous vulnerability, stories shared, laughs had, and tears shed. Such a strong bunch!
I feel blessed to have been able to trust and feel that reciprocated. I learned that as much as I tried I couldn’t stop the hard stuff from surfacing over hours and hours of trekking and that perhaps this was the time to listen, accept and process things, rather than continually running. I sensed my mum with me on this trip and felt her urging me on, not only to finish the hike but to do it for the both of us.
I learned that while the line “Lets get a photo” may have driven everyone a bit batty at times, these photos are a keepsake I’ll look back on as I reflect on this as one of the best times of my life. I also learned not to take any notice of Michele when she muttered the words “one more little hill”. I learned something from every single one of you and my life is richer for having shared this experience with you all.
Japan did not disappoint and being immersed amongst the spectacular beauty of cedar trees, waterfalls and shrines often took me back to imagining illustrations in Enid Blyton books. My life is better today than it was when I departed from Sydney, and I have you all to thank for that. It was an absolute privilege to have done this trip with you.
Keep shining brightly, Diamonds!”
Dorothy